A lot of people may look at us, the consultant, with apprehension when giving us their date of birth or accidentally let their birthday slip in our present. They feel that we, by having their birth data, can know their deepest darkest secret. How I wish!
Well, it really feel good to wield such a power and to be look upon in awe sometime. Nevertheless, I need to burst this hocus pocus. If we do have that kind of ability either we are very rich or dead (assassinated because we know something that we shouldn’t) by now or worst still landed in some science lab as genuine pig.
So what does this BaZi can really do then? To explain this, I’m back to defining what is BaZi.
BaZi is a Chinese Metaphysics’ tool that uses your birth data to calculate the five elements into the position of Four Pillars and each 10-year Luck Pillars, in other term your BaZi Chart. Then base on these elemental interactions on the BaZi Chart, it gives a picture of the person’s character and his possible reaction. It can also tell us possible obstacles that can take place in the person life. However, we will not know the full story board of the event or the outcome in your life because your free will to make a choice is the deciding factor.
“I know what you did last summer” only happen in the movie. Yes, we can kind of gauge something was amiss but no, we do not know what you did.
So BaZi is actually a very good “guide” to your characters – strength and weakness, and your talent. It can also use to guesstimate some future event arising or cause by how your character influences your interaction with the people and circumstances around you.
Admit it! When your friends or families keep telling you are a stubborn fellow or a self-center guy, you are likely to react strongly in denial. However, when you pick up the information from a book or a report, somehow it sounds more okay to say to yourself, “Yeah, I’m like that”.
BaZi can be the guide; but you are the only person who knows what happening to yourself 100%. No one can really read a person mind.
So this brings us the BaZi profiling system which is a good guide to understand yourself, your friends and also families.
Just recently, I had a heart to heart talk with my Indirect Wealth Structure (IW) friend. Nope, my friend is not a guy. I don’t think any self-respecting guy would want to have a heart to heart talk about anything. The only time I guess this can happen is when a father is a Liverpool supporter and his son decided to support Manchester.
Anyway, she reveals that IW can actually be very secretive. They like to talk but only reveal 51% of the contents. The balance is for self-protection. Instead of secretive, I feel IW is very private people and shrewd too. So in all due respect, my dear readers, you will never get to know who this lady is.
Below is how my IW friend and Indirect Resource Structure (IR) people, from my point of view, see and feel about certain characters of ourselves and each others. Come to think of it, a lot of my friends fall into the category of IW.
I have noted some similarities and differences.
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IW friend: |
I typically cannot stand [which she delicately put] “stupiak” people. Prefers super automated people [which I think basically means you need to know what to do and do it without being told.] |
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Me: |
LOL! I also can’t stand dull people but just keep this thought to myself. |
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IW friend: |
I’m a 100% attention seeker. Something just doesn’t feel right if someone is not attracted or interested in me. |
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Me: |
Most of the time I like to keep to myself and do things on my own. This is because I feel I can only work at my optimum level without too much distraction. |
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IW friend: |
When IW doesn’t get their way, they are likely to loose their temper. Nowadays I try to control my temper after studying BaZi. IW can also keep everything under wrap and wait for the right opportunity to counter strike. |
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Me: |
Notices that sometime IW people cover the hurt and sadness with anger, and will unleash the anger on you when you least aspect it. |
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IW friend: |
It just that we do not know how to show out emotion in the best way. I like people who have their own opinion and idea but at the same time hopes they share the same view as me. I feel IW need a lot of patient to deal with. |
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Me: |
Totally agree and with a lot understanding too. Either you need to have a high EQ or put less emotion on their action or reaction. |
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IW friend: |
Spending is my forte but sometimes I also penny-pinch on myself. I feels very insecure of not having enough $$$$ |
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Me: |
I have no comment on this since managing wealth is not my forte either. |
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IW friend: |
Actually IW people are attracted to IR people. Feel they are survivalist, and can handle all situations easily. [Me: “Ka Ching” point scored!] One thing I feels about IR vs IW is I often feels one of my IR friend trying very hard to overtake me. |
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Me: |
Sometimes I do have a funny feeling that they [IW] think I want to compete with them. Most of the time if I got an idea I want to get it done immediately, because I can easily lose the interest and momentum. IR has a short span of focus. While I don’t think I’m competing with anyone, I want my work to come out more interesting than the previous one. Monotonously repeating the same work can really kills a creative spirit. Most of the time I always looks for new ideas to work on. This is why I like to listen to people in good conversation. You can get a lot uncanny ideas from their life experience. |
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IW friend: |
Mind to share what is your feeling and thinking of IW people. |
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Me: |
I noticed that IW like to know how people feel about them, seem very important. Funny! I always thought that they couldn’t careless of what other people think. Actually I think IW is very shrewd and intelligent too. A much better survivalist than us. Feel they always takes on a lot of things alone i.e. sometime even work can even be like fighting a battle ground, and no one there to back them up. Can feel their loneliness up there. However, this is the strength of will that I admire in IW people that is to make things happen no matter what’s the odd against them. Common sense tell me if I go on battle [sound cumbersome], I want to make sure two third of the world are with me if not all. Find IW very generous in helping people too. |
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IW friend: |
Yep, I’m very protective and generous to my close friends and partners. I feel my IR friend is very stubborn. She gives me the feeling that seem like “I’m digging a hole for her to fall in”. |
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Me: |
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Yep, we are pretty stubborn people! We may not fight you head on but neither that means we give in either. When we make up our mind we will not change it. Tell you a secret; we hardly are able to make up our mind on one thing or another because too many things to consider and factor in lor…The thing is, if you are clever enough in the art of manipulation, you can actually make us do thing without us thinking much.My friend added some tips how you can woo an IW lady.
Be mysterious and confident! Shower us with more attention, compliment and presents then we will talk nonstop, and will pour our heart out [again 51% only]. We love challenges so don’t shows you are interest openly and at the same time try to grab our attention. Show couldn’t careless attitude once in awhile. You also must look good all the time.
Since my friend added the tips above, I will input what I think IR lady likes.
Intelligent, confident and a great sense of humour is a must. In short, appear interesting. [Most of my friends say this is harder then getting a guy with 3Cs.] Most of the time IR people are very easy going but they have a very big comfy zone. It take them a lot of time to warm up to someone. If they like you, it is an added plus point but you still are a stranger to them if you are not what they consider as their close circle of friend. You need to operate inside their comfort zone to get what you want. If you appear to have too many needs or wishes too early, they may be wary of you even if they think highly of you. This is when they can judge you with logic and ignore how they feel. The comfy zone can then become a wall shutting everything out.
Maybe next round I can find a metro-sexual guy who is in tune of his feminine side to appear on a post like this. Hey! You can also volunteer yourself too.
With Luv
Jo
