There seems to be a lot of debate how a boss should be nowadays. Boss or leader can be represented by Direct Officer and Seven Killings stars in Bazi. Which one is the leader or the crappy boss? Actually, both have the quality of leader. Both stars have its pro and con as well.
I remembered my time when I started working after college, how my boss should be never crossed my mind. The only thing that matters then, I figure was that I must deliver my work to the person who paid me. He was of course the boss, or if you like, you can call him, ‘leader’ or whatever you want.
Dissatisfaction begins when you want someone to behave the way you think they should.
A lot of time we see certain people in our life because of their qualities and nature, like and dislike, want and want not, need and need not, and hate and love mirror ourselves. They vibrate the same energy wave length with us. These people and attraction whether it is positive or not are in our life because we somehow call upon them through our energy as a result of our thoughts and words we use every day.
Says, when you subconsciously fear a divorce, a marital or relationship problem, you will send the same vibration out. If you always gossips about couple in relationship problem, you too send the trouble energy out. See for yourselves the people around you. They are usually divorcee, or having marital issue. They can be recently broken-off from a relationship too.
Some people have a tendency to say that they will not do this and that. They even when so far to reassure you they will not do it when the matters didn’t even cross your mind. However, before you can utter a word or turn-around, they do exactly what they say they will not do in front of you. Your mouth can only form a big empty ‘O’. You feel perplex by their behaviour. This type of people called for their own trouble. They blame other people for disliking and distrusting them. They may also complain about people doing the same exact thing to them, things they said they will not do. They attract the same characters around them. They didn’t realize their actions and words create the energy of distrust and dislike from people with different wave length.
Financial troubles people are surrounded with people who although may not share the same issue as them, however may have no care of the dollar sign coming in and out of their pocket.
Or you see the same person keep paying for lunches and dinners while others suck him up for every free meal. Until he is able to say no, this people will stay around him. Sometime it may not be the same people but they are there for the free stuffs.
The same goes with what kind of boss you have. The same boss can be viewed differently by different people. He may be a boss to the clerk at the working desk opposite you. He can be a leader to the manager in another department. You are working with this person because you share the same energy vibration with him. For you, he can come across as a boss or a leader too in different point of your life. Or he is just another boss; you have no issue with him. However, he had the same relationship issue like you. The story may be different but it is nevertheless a relationship issue.
For me, I have been an employee before and now I’m a budding entrepreneur. I have come to understand the position of both employee and employer. A lot of issue is sometime brought upon by your thought you have unconsciously send out and your action too.
So before you point a finger to your boss on how he should be, see first what kind of employee you are. This is because your boss/leader is there with you for a reason. They are there because of a mirror reflection of your energy and your soul. How you behave and think are factors that you are getting this boss in your life now.
When you clear the energy that you do not intend to have nor want, this people/boss will no longer post a problem to you. They may even disappear from your life.
Learn to focus and control your thoughts. Your thoughts are part of the main factor you attracts things, events and people into your life. 法奇門 Fa Qi Men is a Chinese Metaphysics tools to attract what you want in life by controlling and focusing your thoughts. I like to call Fa Qi Men as “The Law of Attraction with a Twist.” Hihi! More of this will be in written in my Magazine under the title ‘The Law of Attraction with a Twist’. Sometime I may call it ‘Law of the Universe’ too.